Belly Bob Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 7 minutes ago, HSFBfan said: ive been on suicide watch. ive talked to parents therapists etc it doesnt help If it keeps you alive, it does you some good. Depression is a form of irrationality because while you're depressed you're insensible to the value of things. It may be time to get off the booze and to get on the anti-depressants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Belly Bob said: If it keeps you alive, it does you some good. Depression is a form of irrationality because while you're depressed you're insensible to the value of things. It may be time to get of the booze and to get on the anti-depressants. i cant answer that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belly Bob Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 9 minutes ago, HSFBfan said: I cannot tell what I want because life has never let me decide what I want Okay, fine. But finding a place where you can drink without being criticized isn't a great plan. Depression isn't a rare condition, and it's treatable. But it requires a bit effort on your part, which is the rub, because when you have depression, you believe (falsely) that your life is hopeless and you often fixate on "solutions" that won't really help -- including suicide. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Sportsnut said: Come to Georgia If you want to find yourself, come prepared to work. Lots of work here in many different fields. The cost of living is lower. Less pressure. Georgia i gotta give it to you is an awesome state Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarterBlue Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 3 minutes ago, HSFBfan said: i cant answer that I will throw this out there. We now have a three page thread. And at most, only half the posts are yours. Consider what that means: there are several individuals that post who actually care about you. That in itself should tell you that life is not a futile as you seem to think it is. But at the end of the day, no one can get you out of the funk you are in if you don't make an effort. I think most of the individuals here would like to see you do that ... just ten more cents from me. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BUFORDGAWOLVES Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, DarterBlue said: I will throw this out there. We now have a three page thread. And at most, only half the posts are yours. Consider what that means: there are several individuals that post who actually care about you. That in itself should tell you that life is not a futile as you seem to think it is. But at the end of the day, no one can get you out of the funk you are in if you don't make an effort. I think most of the individuals here would like to see you do that ... just ten more cents from me. Like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Belly Bob said: Okay, fine. But finding a place where you can drink without being criticized isn't a great plan. Depression isn't a rare condition, and it's treatable. But it requires a bit effort on your part, which is the rub, because when you' have depression, you believe that life is hopeless and you often fixate on "solutions" that won't really help -- including suicide. idc about being criticized otherwise i wouldnt tell you guys anything about me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 1 minute ago, DarterBlue said: I will throw this out there. We now have a three page thread. And at most, only half the posts are yours. Consider what that means: there are several individuals that post who actually care about you. That in itself should tell you that life is not a futile as you seem to think it is. But at the end of the day, no one can get you out of the funk you are in if you don't make an effort. I think most of the individuals here would like to see you do that ... just ten more cents from me. i have been making an effort now since im 19. thats 12 years of trying. i honestly dont know much more to do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belly Bob Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 1 minute ago, HSFBfan said: idc about being criticized otherwise i wouldnt tell you guys anything about me. I thought that's what you said, that you wanted to get away from your family because you like to drink and they criticize you for it. For all I know, they're absolutely right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Belly Bob said: I thought that's what you said, that you wanted to get away from your family because you like to drink and they criticize you for it. For all I know, they're absolutely right. yes i love to drink but why cant they accept that??? why cant they just go with the fact that every weekend i wanna drink. i got yelled at because i spelt a drink before like who really gives a fuck. there is more beer out there. i knocked one over because i didnt pay attention. it really isnt a big deal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Sportsnut said: Change your scenery im certainly trying and as i stated come January im gone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belly Bob Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 1 minute ago, HSFBfan said: yes i love to drink but why cant they accept that??? why cant they just go with the fact that every weekend i wanna drink. i got yelled at because i spelt a drink before like who really gives a fuck. there is more beer out there. i knocked one over because i didnt pay attention. it really isnt a big deal IDK. If it's like you say, then get out on your own. Take SN's advice, and find a place where you can secure reliable employment and where you can afford to live. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DevilDog Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Mental Illness is a serious thing and unless some of you here are experts in that field or have actually talked someone off a ledge. I would not be engaging in this and surely not want any comments attributed to me directed to him. Glad he has me on block. My advice would be to not engage this person based off the comments he has posted. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarterBlue Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Sportsnut said: Change your scenery That may help. But he also needs to change his attitude, find something that he finds worthwhile, and assume responsibility for making things happen in a positive way for him. These things may require: a change of scenery as you suggest, a new job, getting counseling, maybe medication, religion, etc. There are a variety of things that could be done to make things seem better. But he also needs to realize that many of them need initiative on his part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 1 minute ago, Belly Bob said: IDK. If it's like you say, then get out on your own. Take SN's advice, and find a place where you can secure reliable employment and where you can afford to live. im certainly trying and at the end of the day ill be working where i wanna be or ill be homeless where i wanna be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 3 minutes ago, Sportsnut said: Come on down. let me finish school. i only have 1 semester left 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, Sportsnut said: Good. Face it as though there is a reward. A new start. A new phase in life. You have to look forward to the challenge. kinda scared it wont work out. excited that it can work out. tired of the job im in. full of all sorts of emotions. went out today had somewhat of a good day. got bit in the lip by a dog of a friend. went home and dealt with the same bullshit as i always do. I always have to do everything while my brothers have to do nothing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BUFORDGAWOLVES Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Men, shut it down, now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Just now, BUFORDGAWOLVES said: Men, shut it down, now. cool shut it down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BUFORDGAWOLVES Posted April 22, 2018 Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 Shut this down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSFBfan Posted April 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2018 1 minute ago, BUFORDGAWOLVES said: Shut this down. cool shut this down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedZone Posted April 23, 2018 Report Share Posted April 23, 2018 19 hours ago, HSFBfan said: let me finish school. i only have 1 semester left nm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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